Holding a wine glass may look simple, but small details can change how the wine appears in the glass and how the moment feels overall. There’s a reason stemmed glasses are designed the way they are, and a few common habits that can quietly get in the way of a clean, polished tasting experience.
Here’s a straightforward guide to doing it right without overthinking.
How to Hold a Wine Glass
Hold all stemmed wine glasses (red, white, etc.) near the base of the stem between your thumb, forefinger, and middle finger. Your remaining fingers will naturally rest on the base. Don’t worry, it’s totally socially acceptable to swirl your wine.
Does It Really Matter?
There isn’t a single correct way to hold a wine glass. In most everyday settings, comfort matters more than strict etiquette.
That said, certain environments place more emphasis on presentation: formal tastings, wine service settings, or events where attention to detail is expected. In those cases, small habits can shape perception.
“The last thing you should be worried about is being judged by how you hold a glass.”
Unfortunately, we live in a world where little things like this count. So instead of fighting it, arm yourself with a few civilized ways to hold a wine glass. Look like a wine connoisseur long enough, and you might just become one.
Why People Hold a Wine Glass at the Stem?
Stemmed glassware exists for two practical reasons:
- Clean presentation: The stem keeps fingerprints off the bowl, improving clarity and appearance.
- Temperature: Holding the bowl warms the wine more quickly, especially whites and sparkling styles.
Using the stem simply works with how the glass is built.
Simple Ways to Hold a Wine Glass
How to Handle Stemless Wine Glasses
Treat stemless wine glasses like any other drinking glass and hold them near the base whenever possible.