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How to Hold a Wine Glass Civilized

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In case you’re curious, here’s how to hold a wine glass with the utmost social etiquette. Your grandmother will be happy.

How to Hold a Glass of Wine

How to Hold a Wine Glass

Hold all stemmed wine glasses (red, white, etc) towards the base of the stem between your thumb, forefinger and middle finger. You’ll find that your other fingers will just rest on the base naturally. Don’t worry, it’s totally socially acceptable to swirl your wine.

Seriously This Matters?

Various Ways to Hold a Wine Glass
Proper etiquette has become a secret handshake to high society. Which way is okay?
The truth is you can hold a wine glass any way you like. We figure, as long as you’re actively tasting wine, it really doesn’t matter what you do. Despite this fact, some social situations can’t be taken lightly. Perhaps you’re at a classy event or someone is about to snap your mug on instagram… either way,

“the last thing you should be worried about is being judged by how you hold a glass.”

Unfortunately we live in a world where little things like this count. So instead of fighting it, arm yourself with a few civilized ways to hold a wine glass. Pull off the look of a wine connoisseur and you might just become one.

Here are some fun things to try with your wine glass

Why Do You Hold a Wine Glass at the Stem?

As much as this seems like a really silly thing to do, there are a couple of reasons why holding a glass by the stem has become the standard:

  • Social Appearance: No greasy hand prints on the bowl
  • Temperature: Wine stays cooler longer.
Ways to Hold a Wine Glass To Pass the Social Etiquette Test





What if I Use Stemless Glasses?

You can treat holding and drinking out of stemless glasses just like normal drinking glasses and hold it towards the base.

O.C.D. TIP: Drink from the same spot. It keeps the glass from making your wine smell funny and it looks clean.

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